Yesterday we talked about relegation in soccer, which is getting kicked to a lower division because of poor performance. I asked you to think about areas where you were in danger of relegation in your life. I want us to look honestly about places where we are not giving our best, where we are losing our influence because we have grown apathetic or grown comfortable with mediocrity. Today I want us to think about the first step for turning those areas around.
The first step is the hardest. I have heard this axiom my whole life, and in many ways it is true, but I also think in some ways the first step is the easiest. let me explain.
What makes the first step hard?
1. We have to get honest that we need to change.
2. We have to dislike the state we are in enough to do something about it.
3. We have to will ourselves to put a plan in action.
All of these steps require a different way of thinking. In Bible speak, this is the renewed mind. It is the daily process of purposefully thinking different, of setting a new course. This new way of thinking asks us to have a vision of the way things could be that overpowers the way things are currently. Vision is the motivation for change. It is the picture of a different outcome somewhere down the road that drives us to take the steps necessary now, to get to the goal later. Let me explain from my running history.
I had knee surgery last July to repair a torn meniscus, which occurred while participating in the dangerous sport of strawberry picking. Enjoy your laugh at my expense now. I was back running within two weeks of that surgery which thrilled me. In September I severely pulled my hamstring playing church softball. I hear more laughter. This injury took me off the run for several weeks and was very discouraging. At this moment I felt I was headed for a bad place physically. Was I going to shut down my running, taper it down to a much less demanding pace, or put in my mind the picture of me better than ever, tougher than ever, more fit than ever, after I healed. I chose the latter and the rest is history.
The key was twofold. One, I had to decide that something better was in store for me down the road. I had to believe that God wanted me to be in shape, so I could serve Him and those around me better, and that He would give me the health and strength to turn things around. Second I had to actually get back on the treadmill and start running.
That first treadmill run was a little scary. Would the hamstring hold without another injury? How fast should I go? How long should I go? I knew that I was not going to be anywhere near where I used to be, but I also had to believe I could not only get back there, but also get better. You see, first steps are just what they appear to be, a first step. There are no fantastic goals met, there are no great monumental changes with a first step. But without a first step, there is no finish line, so you must take it.
After a while, the first steps will become the first mile and then the first mile the first 10 miles, and before long you find yourself seeing the the changes that has only existed in your mind earlier. Here is my mile log from those first few months.
July (surgery) – 39
August – 42
Sept (hamstring) – 4
October – 24
November – 29
December – 34
January – 78
February – 100
March – 119
April – 122
In hindsight, it appears the 4 miles in late September were a piece of cake. All I had to do was get back on the treadmill and press start. 100 miles a month was was only a picture in my mind back then, but one I had purposed to pursue. What about you? Will you press start today in those areas you were honest about yesterday?
Hopefully you wrote down an area or two where you honestly are just not getting it done as you should. Maybe you feel you are failing as a spouse, a parent, a friend, an employee or employer, or as a follower of Christ. Maybe it involves a bad habit, bad health, or lack of good disciplines. No matter the problem, think about what could be! What could you achieve if you put your renewed mind into action? God is with you! He will give you the strength to carry on, but you have to see it, believe it is possible, and take the first steps. What are those steps? Write them down right now. Take one today. Before you know it, that first seemingly meaningless step will have you running marathons toward your vision of the future. Do I really think that is possible?
I DO! I have seen it many times in my life.
Tomorrow, we will talk about extending your reach along the way!
Gotta Run,
steve